I Hate My Life!

That's what I hear ALL the time. More on that later on in the blog.

I'm trying to think of a new closing statement for my emails. I normally always say "Take care" or "Have a great day" - both are true and heartfelt wishes - but I need something to reflect my spiritual side. Light and Love, Peace and Harmony, Love and Blessing are all used a lot with the people I correspond with - I need something unique. Thus far this is what I've come up with:

In faith and healing
Have faith and heal
Within us we are one
Live and Love

I'm not too taken with any of them - yet. I did just think of "Healing with sunshine" and I rather like that one. Not sure. If you can think of anything - let me know.

Did you notice that the blog was down last night for about 8 hours? The company that hosts it ran into a hardware problem and of course my blog was one of the few that was affected. But all is well now:)

My elixir worked great! Making another round this morning. Should be done by tomorrow morning and I'll drink to my good health:)

Forcing myself to get back on track with the gypsy magic books:)

My husband comes into my office this morning and we are discussing our son waking up in the middle of the night (which he slept through) because of a nightmare. The husband mentions that he wishes he would wake up and realize that this is a dream and that everything will be okay. I just looked at him and replied, sorry - this is your life - no dream. He replies - it sucks. I reminded him (as I always do) that if his life is in the toilet the only one he has to blame is the person he looks at in the mirror. Every choice he made or avoided in his life got him to this point. If he hates life - then do something to fix it cause no one will fix it for him.

This is a discussion I have at least once a day with a client. They hate their life - hate it! I can't seem to get people to realize that it is "them" who got them to this point. It is their choices and no one else's that turned their life into a load of crap. I had a client scream - but it wasn't my fault that I got laid off! True. But let's trace this back: who applied at that company? Whose choice was it to stay in that town? To marry that guy? To get pregnant as a young teen? Every decision we make - even what to have or not to have for breakfast - is a building stone to our lives. Everything we say or do has an impact on our life. What we think has a great influence on our life. If you hate things - then DO something about it. Bitching won't do you a damn bit of good as no one will change your life for you. Responsibility for our thoughts, actions and our own lives has appeared to go out the door. We always want to blame someone for our problems when it is us who is the problem!

Okay - I'm stepping off the soapbox. It just infuriates me when people bitch about how horrible their life is and want someone else to fix their mess.

Off to go hurt my body AKA work out!

Until tomorrow...
Allie;)