Out Of Body Ecstasy Sex

Out of body sex - I rolled out of bed today thinking about the subject and I've been talking about it ever since. Not that I mind talking about OBE sex - or heck - sex. But today seemed to have an overflow of questions and situations. I've been working with a couple of people today on with their Sexual Advice Plans and a Sexual Coaching client. The main theme that is running though these clients is that they all have a need to use sex toys/oils during telepathic sex, but when they try to use the toy during the sexual connection, the connection is lost or at the least interrupted.

Why is that? Because they are using the toys as an add on and not as part of the actual experience. They have to take a "time out" while they position and/or insert the toy or put on the oil and that's what yanks them out of the connection. Using toys like this during a fantasy also interrupts the flow of things.

So what's one to do?

How can you have telepathic sex or a fantasy and not lose the rhythm when you introduce sex toys into the picture?

Simple. Be prepared.

During physical sex, would you stop mid-go in order to grab a condom, unwrap it and put it on? No - you would be prepared and have that baby either out of the wrapper already (and sitting near by for quick application) or you'd at least have the package open and within reach. Because come on - if you're not prepared- it interrupts the flow. Maybe that's just me? But I doubt it.

If you are going to use oils during OBE sex or a fantasy: put the oil on her fingertips before the connection happens. It also helps if you are already naked. When the moment arrives during the connection where the oil needs applied - let your fingers do the walking. No interruptions with getting the oil on your fingers - no bumps in the orgasmic flow.

Now if you want to use sex toys - this is really where a male or female fuck machine (an actual machine, not a person) comes in handy. All you would have to do is have it in position and press a button when ready. But it's a hefty price tag and precisely why I don't own one -- yet. So anyways - normal sex toys.....

Have vibrators on and position before the connection starts - this also goes for dildos, anal plugs and Fleshlights (or any male masturbation toy). Nipple clips, nipple suckers - have in your hands. When the time is right, you'll be able to use the sex toys without the an interruption with the flow.

Need to add lube before you use the toy? In one hand have the lube on your fingers already - in the other hand have your sex toy. When the time is right - apply the lube, then use the toy. Bam - boom - just like that.

Give it a try today and drop me an email on how it turns out: gypsyadvice (at) yahoo (dot) com

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

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I was working on my "Out of Body Ecstasy" book and found myself in need of a sexual break. Not having anyone in particular today to connect telepathicly to - I decided to connect to an unknown or random partner. The partner I was looking for I wanted to have the physical qualities of Sawyer from "Lost". I focused my intent and saw a man who had the same hot good looks as Sawyer - although he was not the actor who plays Sawyer. His wall of protection was up and I didn't try to move in to have a stronger connect. He sensed me and asked who I was - I told him and also said why I was there and that I would also simply go away if that's what he wanted.

He wanted me to stay -thought it was "cool" that I found him. I strengthened the telepathic connection, I could feel his body tremble at the heightened energy that was now connected to him. He asked what was he supposed to do. I told him to pretend that I was physically there in front of him - what would he do to a woman who he was sexually attracted to and who was open to sexual advances? He gave that smile like - duh, I'd kiss her. And that's exactly what he did. With a slight hesitation (kind of like - I can't believe I'm about to do this), he leaned in and kissed me on the lips. He pulled back and commented that it was nice. I smiled and said - well let's try this....I held the back of his head and pulled him to me - as our lips touched, he allowed my tongue to explore the outside of his lips, the inside of his lips and then his mouth -- it was a good kiss. When I pulled back - he smiled for a spilt second, then grasped my head and pulled me to him again. When our mouths met - there was a deep - hungry passion. Oddly enough, when our tongues met this time, it made my tongue tingle. I didn't understand why then - and I still don't.

He mumbled if this was all we could do? I assured him it wasn't by sliding my hand over his already hard cock.

Then in an instant he was gone. The rapid disconnect left me with a splitting headache. My guess is that someone surprised him and that yanked him from the connection.

A few aspirins later -- I was back to work on my book!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)

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As I fell asleep last night I was feeling in the need for some dream sex - so I went off in search of Vincent for some steamy lovin`. He'd been around me all day long, so I knew that he shouldn't be hard to find. I entered into a dream and landed in a burnt out building - if felt like a house in France during WW2.

I turned and there he was -- just leaning against a wall staring at me. I smiled -- but something inside me was saying this was off, something wasn't right.

He commented that he liked what I had done to my hair. In a few short steps, he was in front of me, kissing me gently on the lips. Although the kiss felt good - it didn't feel right. I didn't get that same surge of energy that I normally did. This got me to thinking - who was this guy?

I put my arms around him and hugged him tight (normally I would have had an all over energy surge - but now, nadda), pulled back and looked into his eyes. His eyes were brown, but didn't hold the same spark as the norm. I asked how he'd been he said he was fine --- with that he started kissing my neck, his hand fondled my breast. I gave him a little push and took a step back.

I looked him dead in the eyes and asked who he was -- he of course said Vincent. But I knew damn well this wasn't him. And that's what I said with the adage - try again. He's like, come on babe and took a step towards me. I threw up a thick protection wall and told him to stay back.

His appearance morphed into someone else - someone I don't know in the physical sense, but was vaguely familiar (like from a past life). He asked how did I know? I told him, his energy signature is off, it's not Vincent's. He said that it was easy to track me down because my energy is so high because I practice OBE and he knew what Vincent actually looked like - but that he was hoping he could have gotten further with me before I figured it out - he missed the feel of my skin. As he said I'll be seeing you again - Vincent did come out of right field and plowed right into him - grabbed him by the neck and told him to stay away. Then he threw him through the wall -and I mean through like the wall was liquid - the wall didn't look damaged.

Because I could sense Vincent's energy signature. I lowered my wall and allowed him to come near me. That's when he threw his arms around me and gave me a huge hug. He told me that if I ever see that guy again, that I am to send for him immediately. I asked Vincent who that was. He pulled back, cupped my face in his hands and said -- don't you remember? He was the King who had me killed and you imprisoned until his death. It did ring a bell - a large alarm bell.

Vincent leaned down and his soft lips brushed mine - his tongue found mine and I could taste -- mint -- the kisses that followed were deep and passionate. I heard a loud noise and in a blink he was gone. Something must of happened at his house to jolt him awake.

I had written before about energy signatures and how no two people have the same energy. This was a fine example of just that - this person looked like Vincent, sounded like Vincent -- but energetically it didn't feel like Vincent.

If you ever encounter such a problem while you're dreaming (and if you do engage in dream sex, your energy will expand making it easier for all sorts of people to find you), imagine a thick white wall of energy coming out of the ground and moving upwards, closing above you. Then think of another place you would rather be and you should go there. If this person follows you, you can ask your angels and guides to come in for projection. All you have to do is call them with something like this: "Guardian Angels and Spirit Guides surround me with your protection and keep me safe from harm. Thank you". OBE Sex protection isn't about safe sex, but it is about safety.

I do know that I will be on the look out for this guy now with this energy signature. In case you do not know what Vincent was talking about with the King and so forth - I talked about it in the past life regression I posted.

Dream sex, out of body sex or whatever kind of sex, it's always important to be safe.

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

Labels: dream sex, OBE Protection, obe sex, sex, Sexual Energy Tip

Astral sex was not on my mind - but a get away from my stressful day was. I was floating about an astral layer, enjoying the peacefulness, when I felt a buzz. Not a sound - no words spoken - just a high frequency buzz. I turned around and saw an outline of a man with mostly blue energy. I couldn't see his face really - don't think he had one - but intuitively knew it as Bill. His arm reached out to me - and it was like I was on some warped high as the arm stretched and contorted so odd, like it was a limp piece of taffy in a taffy puller. I held out my hand to grab him - but my hand didn't really look like a hand either - but a large baseball mitt. I noticed my energy pulsed with violet and orange.

As he pulled me to him, parts of his energy body spiked out towards me - for lack of a better way to describe it, they reminded me of energy hard ons. One spike shot out from his third eye, the other his throat and lastly his sacral chakra (2 in below where the belly button would be). When the energy spikes hit my body they caused a energetic ripple effect from the point of contact, through out my body. The feel was energizing, but dare I say it tickled too? I have no idea how it would tickle, but it did.

Instead of giving me an orgasm right off (the norm) somehow the energy booted me from being with Bill into a vastness of white. I had no idea where I was - but all I could see was white - period. My energy body was vibrating at an insane rate of speed. I admit - I was a bit freaked with all of this - I wanted to go back to my body. So I did.

I slammed back into my body pretty hard. My physical body was trembling pretty fast like my energy body was and on top of it all, I was horny as hell. I knew I couldn't just go to bed and fall asleep. It took 15 min for my physical body to chill out enough so that I could take care of the horny problem. That problem took care of itself in record time - thanks to my energy body being so ramped up.

What an experience. I tell ya what - out of the three methods, astral sex may produce the most intense orgasm, but it's also the weirdest.

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)

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Out of body sex - this morning I opened my email and had over 10 emails asking either how to engage in telepathic, dream or astral sex - and/or if OBE sex is real. I can understand why some have a hard time believing that OBE sex is something real because many people tend not to believe in things, ideas or notions of items they cannot see or feel with their physical hands. The thing with OBE sex and OBE is general is that it deals with energy and our energy body. We may not be able to "see" our energy body with the naked eye - but we can feel our energy. Don't believe me? Try this...

Hold your hands up at chest level, approximately six to eight inches apart palms facing one another.

Can you feel the heat exchange between them?

Next - bend the fingertips on your right hand (as if you were giving a slight wave) upward and downward towards the left palm. Now close your eyes and repeat this process. Can you feel a warm cool or tingly feeling in your left palm?

Move your left hand back a few inches and now move your right fingertips from left to right towards the left palm. Still feel the sensation? That's energy.

Need more?

Stick out the hand you do not write with - palm up. Use your imagination and create a white ball of energy over the palm of your hand - having it hover 2 to 3 inches above the palm. Feel the tingling in the middle of your palm? That's energy.

And that's all OBE and OBE sex is - the exchange of energy. OBE sex isn't a way of life that is only intended for those naturally gifted on OBE - it's for anyone because everyone has two things: an energy body and an imagination. That's all you need. No fancy equipment, music or drugs. There's no reason on Earth why everyone could not have a satisfying sex life.

The easiest way to get started with OBE sex is to allow yourself to telepathically connect to someone via what I call an intense day dream. Close your eyes and imagine someone you'd like to have sex with - make sure this is a person you actually know - celebrities or strangers will not work - unless (you knew this was coming) you knew this person in a previous life or you at least have made eye contact in this life. Our energy body has a natural shield that keeps "unknowns" out.

Really allow yourself to imagine this person - what they would be wearing, what location they would be in, how they would smell, what they would be doing...etc....once you can hold that picture of them in your imagination - allow yourself to kiss them. Keep kissing - touching - feeling - taking note on how your body is responding to what you are doing. They should respond back with kiss and touching as well. Kisses will deepen, touching will accelerate - just as if they were right in front of you. Let your lips wander along their body - let their lips wander on yours.

When you've had enough foreplay - you can either end the day dream as you would any other time you end day dreams - just pull yourself out of it. Or if you want to try to keep moving forward - go head. See yourselves taking off each other's clothes, engaging in oral play or intercourse. You can engage in anything you want to in this connection as you would in the physical reality. When you're finished - stop the day dream. Note how your body feels. Are you turned on? Were you able to have an orgasm? Or do you have to take matters into your own hands?

The other person, if they do not know that telepathic sex is going on, will still feel something. They will be horny without knowing why. Their energy body can respond back in an unconscious fashion - they do not have to know that they are responding. So while you know consciously what's going on - they may not - but their body will still react.

Once you get good at telepathic sex, your 15 min work break could take on a whole new meaning!

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)

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Astral sex is something that I do not get a lot of time to do. But what time is spent in the astral is well worth the time and effort. The other night I went on the astral plane to specifically look for Vincent. I left my body, thought of him and bingo - there I was. He was half asleep in a chair with a book on his chest. I reached out to touch him when I heard a voice tell me not to do that - let him sleep.

I turned and saw this floating energy blob (reminded me of something right out of the original Star Trek, but not as cheesy) that pulsed all of the colors of the rainbow, one at a time. It asked me to follow it. I asked how I could keep up - it told me to reach out what I would perceive to be an arm and lay my hand on it. So I did. As soon as I touched it - a strange, vibrating energy pulsed right through me - in a blink we were out of Vincent's room and in a place of vastness. There was no beginning - no ending - it just existed everywhere. There was no top or bottom - it just was what it was.

This energy blob extended itself into a very long tube - and turned solid orange. It told me to climb inside. I was rather skeptical and wasn't too thrilled about going into a cylinder in the middle of no where. It promised me that it wouldn't hurt and that it was what I was looking for. I asked what it as going to do -- it said that it would sexually excite me to the point of an orgasm.

Well - who could turn down an invitation like that? Not me.

As I crawled in - every movement of my energy with its energy caused spikes of super charged energy to run through me - it was like I had my hand on the hood of a charged up race car and the motor was on. When I got to the middle - it told me to lie down. I did and I could feel the tunnel close in around me so that it became a second skin. As soon as it did that, I felt a fire in my sacral chakra. This energy burned with such intensity that my sexual response was immediate and intense. Before I could finish saying - Holy Shit - I slammed back into my body.

I laid there - my heart was beating so fast that I thought I was having a heart attack. I didn't have to check my body to see if I had an orgasm - I knew I did. My body was trembling like I was submerged in a tub if ice water. It took at least 15 min for my body to chill out.

Once it did - I fell asleep satisfied and exhausted.

Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)

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