Out Of Body Ecstasy Sex
Monday, December 22, 2008
Adult Toys, Oil And Telepathic Sex!
Out of body sex - I rolled out of bed today thinking about the subject and I've been talking about it ever since. Not that I mind talking about OBE sex - or heck - sex. But today seemed to have an overflow of questions and situations. I've been working with a couple of people today on with their Sexual Advice Plans and a Sexual Coaching client. The main theme that is running though these clients is that they all have a need to use sex toys/oils during telepathic sex, but when they try to use the toy during the sexual connection, the connection is lost or at the least interrupted.
Why is that? Because they are using the toys as an add on and not as part of the actual experience. They have to take a "time out" while they position and/or insert the toy or put on the oil and that's what yanks them out of the connection. Using toys like this during a fantasy also interrupts the flow of things.
So what's one to do?
How can you have telepathic sex or a fantasy and not lose the rhythm when you introduce sex toys into the picture?
Simple. Be prepared.
During physical sex, would you stop mid-go in order to grab a condom, unwrap it and put it on? No - you would be prepared and have that baby either out of the wrapper already (and sitting near by for quick application) or you'd at least have the package open and within reach. Because come on - if you're not prepared- it interrupts the flow. Maybe that's just me? But I doubt it.
If you are going to use oils during OBE sex or a fantasy: put the oil on her fingertips before the connection happens. It also helps if you are already naked. When the moment arrives during the connection where the oil needs applied - let your fingers do the walking. No interruptions with getting the oil on your fingers - no bumps in the orgasmic flow.
Now if you want to use sex toys - this is really where a male or female fuck machine (an actual machine, not a person) comes in handy. All you would have to do is have it in position and press a button when ready. But it's a hefty price tag and precisely why I don't own one -- yet. So anyways - normal sex toys.....
Have vibrators on and position before the connection starts - this also goes for dildos, anal plugs and Fleshlights (or any male masturbation toy). Nipple clips, nipple suckers - have in your hands. When the time is right, you'll be able to use the sex toys without the an interruption with the flow.
Need to add lube before you use the toy? In one hand have the lube on your fingers already - in the other hand have your sex toy. When the time is right - apply the lube, then use the toy. Bam - boom - just like that.
Give it a try today and drop me an email on how it turns out: gypsyadvice (at) yahoo (dot) com
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)
Why is that? Because they are using the toys as an add on and not as part of the actual experience. They have to take a "time out" while they position and/or insert the toy or put on the oil and that's what yanks them out of the connection. Using toys like this during a fantasy also interrupts the flow of things.
So what's one to do?
How can you have telepathic sex or a fantasy and not lose the rhythm when you introduce sex toys into the picture?
Simple. Be prepared.
During physical sex, would you stop mid-go in order to grab a condom, unwrap it and put it on? No - you would be prepared and have that baby either out of the wrapper already (and sitting near by for quick application) or you'd at least have the package open and within reach. Because come on - if you're not prepared- it interrupts the flow. Maybe that's just me? But I doubt it.
If you are going to use oils during OBE sex or a fantasy: put the oil on her fingertips before the connection happens. It also helps if you are already naked. When the moment arrives during the connection where the oil needs applied - let your fingers do the walking. No interruptions with getting the oil on your fingers - no bumps in the orgasmic flow.
Now if you want to use sex toys - this is really where a male or female fuck machine (an actual machine, not a person) comes in handy. All you would have to do is have it in position and press a button when ready. But it's a hefty price tag and precisely why I don't own one -- yet. So anyways - normal sex toys.....
Have vibrators on and position before the connection starts - this also goes for dildos, anal plugs and Fleshlights (or any male masturbation toy). Nipple clips, nipple suckers - have in your hands. When the time is right, you'll be able to use the sex toys without the an interruption with the flow.
Need to add lube before you use the toy? In one hand have the lube on your fingers already - in the other hand have your sex toy. When the time is right - apply the lube, then use the toy. Bam - boom - just like that.
Give it a try today and drop me an email on how it turns out: gypsyadvice (at) yahoo (dot) com
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)
Labels: Allie, obe sex, sex, sex tip, sex toys, telepathic sex
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Out Of Body Ecstasy Newsletter
Yep - you heard correctly. I'm going to be launching an "Orgasm U" newsletter. I haven't figured out yet if it will be weekly or bi-weekly, but I'm toying with the idea that it will contain:
Weekly Sex Position
Weekly Sex Toy Review
OBE Sex Story not found here on the blog
Sexual Energy Exercise
OBE Sex Tip
My goal is to see how the newsletter does and then from there add on a radio show. I'm also working on a in person workshop.
Stay Tuned!
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)
Weekly Sex Position
Weekly Sex Toy Review
OBE Sex Story not found here on the blog
Sexual Energy Exercise
OBE Sex Tip
My goal is to see how the newsletter does and then from there add on a radio show. I'm also working on a in person workshop.
Stay Tuned!
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)
Labels: Allie, astral sex, dream sex, OBE Newsletter, obe sex, sex tip, sex toys, telepathic sex
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
Astral Sex, Bill And The Moon!
After being on Psychiconair.com this morning as Maria Shaw's guest, and talking about astral sex, I knew that I had to go do some traveling. I rearranged a few things on my schedule and off I went. When I separated my body, it was very bright around me - almost as if I had a spotlight shining right in my eyes and I couldn't see. I knew better than to turn around and look at my physical body - so I thought about the ocean -- and there I was.
However, I wasn't alone. I looked over and there was Bill. I was surprised to say the least. He said - I figured this is where you would go. I didn't bother even asking how he knew I was even going to astral travel. He held out his hand and I took it. We immediately went to the moon. I found this to be very odd since I can't even remember going to the moon before. So here we are, two energy masses floating on the moon. Bill's right hand turned into what I would describe as a clit licking sex toy. But instead of placing it where one would think to - on my clit, he slid it inside my energy body. It was such an odd, yet exciting feeling. It felt like someone was stroking my energy body from the inside out. It was highly erotic and tantalizing. I could feel myself getting lighter - I thought that I couldn't take it any more. That's all I had to do was think about it, that the excitement was getting to me - because Bill stepped into me. At that time it felt like I was going down the largest roller coaster in the world, in the front seat with no seat belt on and at the same time someone shoving a coffee IV into my arm. It was almost too much -- almost.
Right when it felt like I was bursting free - otherwise known as an astral orgasm - I shot back to my body. I found myself not quite finished -- I was very thankful for my previous job as a sex toy tester - as I had plenty of items to choose from!
It's been a good day:)
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)
However, I wasn't alone. I looked over and there was Bill. I was surprised to say the least. He said - I figured this is where you would go. I didn't bother even asking how he knew I was even going to astral travel. He held out his hand and I took it. We immediately went to the moon. I found this to be very odd since I can't even remember going to the moon before. So here we are, two energy masses floating on the moon. Bill's right hand turned into what I would describe as a clit licking sex toy. But instead of placing it where one would think to - on my clit, he slid it inside my energy body. It was such an odd, yet exciting feeling. It felt like someone was stroking my energy body from the inside out. It was highly erotic and tantalizing. I could feel myself getting lighter - I thought that I couldn't take it any more. That's all I had to do was think about it, that the excitement was getting to me - because Bill stepped into me. At that time it felt like I was going down the largest roller coaster in the world, in the front seat with no seat belt on and at the same time someone shoving a coffee IV into my arm. It was almost too much -- almost.
Right when it felt like I was bursting free - otherwise known as an astral orgasm - I shot back to my body. I found myself not quite finished -- I was very thankful for my previous job as a sex toy tester - as I had plenty of items to choose from!
It's been a good day:)
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie :)
Labels: Allie, astral sex, obe sex, sex, sex toys
Friday, March 28, 2008
Strawberries, Sex Toys And Telepathic Sex!
Sex...the final frontier. Or so it seems in Allie's world;) With some of the emails I get I wonder if I've set out on an exploration that not many have had the good fortune to discover. I'm convinced that one of my life paths is to teach people how to have better sex lives by utilizing OBE sex. That's why - I think that I help start Whispers Media, the erotic audio place for women - or why I wrote the sex blogs, tested sex toys, wrote erotica and chatted on the L Word every Monday. Because of this - I have no problem talking to people about orgasms, oral sex, penis, vagina, foreplay, sexual positions and the whole she-bang:) My hope is that through this blog, upcoming book, maybe a podcast/radio show - and weekend workshops - that I can help others.
Keep the questions coming via this blog or my email.
What applies in the physical reality also applies to the OBE reality. The fun tips, sexual positions and even sex toys can be used in the OBE sex world. For example this is what happened with Will and I once during telepathic sex:
I could smell strawberries -- I looked down and Will was applying a strawberry scented warming oil to my clit and outer lips. The warming sensation was so real-like that in the physical reality I had to check to see if I really had any on. Will gently rubbed the oil in, down and around - careful not to get any in my vagina. The small movements he had, coupled with the oil - had me wanting more sooner rather than later. He commented that he had something that he wanted to try. I watched with interest as he took the cock ring and turned on the vibrating bullet. A smiled creped across my face as I watched him slide it on his cock.
I could feel the vibration of the cock ring against my clit as he thrust. My physical body responded to the telepathic moves as if he were right here with me. In the telepathic connection, my hands grabbed his waist and urged him to move faster, but he wouldn't have any of that - he wanted to take his time and savor the moment. Just when I thought neither one of us could handle it any longer -- the orgasmic climax was priceless.
So -- rule of thumb -- if you like to use something in the physical reality - you can take it with you in the OBE reality!
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)
Keep the questions coming via this blog or my email.
What applies in the physical reality also applies to the OBE reality. The fun tips, sexual positions and even sex toys can be used in the OBE sex world. For example this is what happened with Will and I once during telepathic sex:
I could smell strawberries -- I looked down and Will was applying a strawberry scented warming oil to my clit and outer lips. The warming sensation was so real-like that in the physical reality I had to check to see if I really had any on. Will gently rubbed the oil in, down and around - careful not to get any in my vagina. The small movements he had, coupled with the oil - had me wanting more sooner rather than later. He commented that he had something that he wanted to try. I watched with interest as he took the cock ring and turned on the vibrating bullet. A smiled creped across my face as I watched him slide it on his cock.
I could feel the vibration of the cock ring against my clit as he thrust. My physical body responded to the telepathic moves as if he were right here with me. In the telepathic connection, my hands grabbed his waist and urged him to move faster, but he wouldn't have any of that - he wanted to take his time and savor the moment. Just when I thought neither one of us could handle it any longer -- the orgasmic climax was priceless.
So -- rule of thumb -- if you like to use something in the physical reality - you can take it with you in the OBE reality!
Crystal Sunshine!
Allie ;)
Labels: Allie, obe sex, oil, sex, sex toys, telepathic sex
